Q& A 408 – From A

Waalaikumussalm A, indeed there were many issues that did not make sense at all.  Lots of nightmare.  When I talk to my husband on the phone, the conversation was OK but at home anything I said to him in person, somehow the way my husband responding back to me was he always got frustrated because according to him I was so stupid, always try to aggravate him, to annoy him, he often told me “you are not a stupid but the way to do thing, the way you say is always stupid!”  Back then cell phone is not exist yet so when the phone rang and I answer the phone, anything I said to the caller was always made him got so mad because according to him, I was so stupid.  There were more than this but I can not write it down here.  I always made doa’ Ya Allah find me a way out from the situation I was in and I did lots of zikr, read Qur’an, did the night prayer (tahajud), even when we both, my husband and I, were watching TV, my heart was never stop doing zikr.  When we were in the car, my husband driving, I never stop did my zikr in my heart, on the bed until I feel asleep I never stop zikr in my heart.  I did not want to do the zikr through my mouth because I did not want to aggravate him so I did it silent.  Alhamdulillah I never had problem finding job in fact I always had a good job.  But the blockages was, I believe, in my husband because before he married me, he always had a good job but three months after I arrived in the US, my husband lost his job, hundreds of hundreds resume sent but he couldn’t find job.  If he did find a job, just a job, a stupid job, he always for whatever reason he got laid off or lost his job.  No matter how good we tried to manage our money, we never can save even a little.  Always struggled with money but it did not make sense.  One day I was driving to work and my husband was also driving to go somewhere, I was going to southbound and my husband was driving to the opposite direction but at the same time I was about to get hit by other car in which it was impossible to avoid but Allah was saved me.  Later that day when I called my husband at home and when I told my husband about I almost got into a big accident then my husband was shocked and told me the same thing.  There were two ladies driving was about to hit the car my husband was driving, the two ladies was driving very high speed in which my husband said he couldn’t believe that he escaped from that about to get big accident.  My boys were already big enough, they were in Junior High and High School, one day when my husband went to the backyard, he found a dol hang with the rop on the tree, where that dol form?  Our boys never played with the dol and we had been living in that house for a few years and never seen that dol.  There were many strange thing that did not make sense.  I cook spinach, off course I always wash and rinse the spinach three times to make sure there is no sand and to make sure they are cleaned.  After the spinach was done, my husband was going to eat, he scoop the spinach using the serving spoon, came to find out there was lots of sand from that spinach.  The sand was a lot on the serving spoon.  My husband got so mad and got angry to me.  I just couldn’t understand where that sand from because I already cleaned the spinach three times beside if there were still some sand in between the leaf, that sand couldn’t have been that way.

Alhamdulillah I love to read so over 15 years ago when I was reading one of the hadtiz’ books I have, I came across about the healing by reciting of Qur’an which is called ruqyah.  At that time to the best of my knowledge, the word ruqyah was not a common and many syech, ustadz, imam who did the healing, they did not call it ruqyah.  But a few years later ruqyah is became known everywhere.  I hope this answer your question.

Where do you live A?  Wassalam

On Tuesday, January 5, 2021, 03:46:56 AM PST – A wrote:

On Tuesday, January 5, 2021, 06:43:16 AM PST – ruqyah.net wrote: